Thelma Osatohanmwen
A 20 year old man pleading anonymity has cried out and solicited for advice online as his girlfriend of few months blackmails him over abortion scandal.
Sharing his story to Faith on Trendhastags, he revealed that in the first month of their relationship, he had alot of sexual relations with his girlfriend, noticing that they didn’t use protection.
Confronting her about safe s3x after awhile, he told her no s3x that night without protection as “I was scared of getting a girl pregnant.” She refused, saying that she uses something to prevent pregnancy and has not been using protection in her past relationships, so he relaxed.
Furthermore, he noted that after a month, he discovered that she was two weeks pregnant and within that period she has been visiting a man who she claimed was her brother but they weren’t related by blood, so he couldn’t be certain the pregnancy was his.
The 20 year old also shared that they decided to have an abortion but to his dismay, she has been trying to blackmail him with the threat of “I can’t leave her alone anymore, because she has done abortion for me,” and calling his mother who knows her as a friend and reporting everything to her if he should decide to end the relationship with her. He also said that he didn’t want to confess to his mother because he didn’t want to disappoint her.
He encouraged Netizens to read his story and comment as he need advice on handling the situation.
Below are some comments,
According to @CozyKay4, “You’re 20..This shouldn’t be your major concern.”
“Your softness is your challenge. You want to live a secretive life. There are things we need to open up and fast for that matter. Man up, send her out and Open up to your mum. Your mum shouldn’t be your warrior. You should be her warrior,” @mudat_b tweeted.
“Since your mom is your friend explain everything to her,” @RealSlimRichie advised.
“You’re 20 your girlfriend should be 19 or 18, at your age you have started paying a girl’s school which is not your responsibility. She has done lots of hook ups. One thing i want you to know is that there’s nothing her blackmail will lead to. If you feel nothing for her again leave her and move on with your life. And lemme tell you moving forward, do not cater for the responsibilities meant for a girl’s parents. They are loyal to their feelings and not your sacrifice. Know this and know peace ✌️ 🕊️,” @Shareurconcern said.
“Bear the consequences of your actions and let the internet rest,” @7_wish 1.