How family destroyed my marriage – Man laments

Thelma Osatohanmwen

In a heartfelt revelation shared by a man on “The Humans of ABUJA,” he recounted the journey from marital bliss to turmoil and eventually redemption as his family almost destroyed his relationship with his wife.

He revealed that Four years into his marriage, he faced a challenging situation when his siblings disapproved his wife.

According to him, despite her calm and collected nature, he succumbed to family pressure, allowing his sisters to live with his pregnant wife while he pursued a Visa to Germany.

The family’s interference intensified, leading to strained communication between them as the general notion of women whose husband travel out is not on the positive side.

Manipulated by reports from his family that his wife was cheating on him and abusing his family, the man stopped supporting his wife emotionally and financially, ultimately blaming her for the stillbirth of their child.

Months of separation and anguish followed, as he lost his visa and came back to Nigeria. His family deserted him as he didn’t have a job and his wife whom he maltreated was the one supporting him till he found a job after much trial.

Things turned around for him when he had a dream featuring his late father which served as a wake-up call, revealing the unique and supportive nature of his wife.

Fueled by remorse and a newfound understanding, the man reconciled with his wife, acknowledging his mistakes and vowing to rebuild their bond. The couple faced financial struggles, but the wife’s unwavering support, both emotionally and financially, demonstrated the strength of their connection.

Realizing the toxicity of external influences, the man set boundaries with his family, prioritizing the happiness of his marriage. A job opportunity and a renewed visa application brought a positive turn, symbolizing the restoration of hope.

The couple is now expecting a child, and the man expresses deep gratitude for the peace and happiness he has regained.