Grace Omachoko
A married woman has cried out over her husband’s obsession with numerous women.
The unidentified woman lamenting via a post on social media noted that her husband prefers to talk to other women on the phone than converse with her.
According to her, her husband’s nonchalant attitude towards her has made her find peace relating with his friend anytime he comes visiting, pointing that he made her chase all her friends before marriage.
In her words, “My husband prefers been busy on his phone with his numerous exes, divorcee and single ladies than gisting with me if we are together, i have always want him to have peace of mind but it seems he doesnt think of that about me
“Am begining to find peace gisting with his friend anytime he comes to visit, some persons may say i saw the handwriting on the wall before i married him,Hell NO! .He succeded in making me chase all my friend both male and female away but now have numerous to chat with and laugh and please himself.”
She stressed that her religion and home training is what is limiting her from commiting adultery, noting that his friends are also as he is and their wives or fiance’s when taken to the club often commit adultery with young men.
“He thinks his smart but i pity him, is just my home training that is limiting me to do some kind of evil things ,we will go for party or club he will leave me and go and be sitting in midst of other ladies, while some men will come and sit with me and making advances at me and he doesnt know. Some of his friends that are as useless as him and come with their wives or Fiance doesnt know young and energetic men do have quickie with their wives at the rest room.
“My religion and the way i value my body can’t make me to stooop so low to do all those things but why will a man choose to neglect the wive to be dieing of boredom.” She said.
Expressing her dilemma, she noted that her husband’s action can prompt her to cheat without his knowledge cause they share separate rooms and her male colleagues often take advantage of her loneliness and message her till midnight.
“Because of lack of attention my Male Colleagues always try to take advantage of that and be chatting with me till midnight without him even seeing it.
“We lived in a separate room that this his attitude can make someone to be cheating without him knowing but i dont want to do that Please someone should help me out
Please am dieing slowly i have confronted him so many times but he will tell me i dont have the right to tell him what to do.” She lamented.