Hope James



Few women have opened up on why they cheat on their husbands, with all of them having different reasons why they do so.

According to 36-year-old Esther, she never believed she would cheat on her husband, but she eventually did to get him a good job.

“Cheating on my husband is something I never believed could happen. Unfortunately, I did in 2020. My husband and I were just average earners. Although we couldn’t afford to buy everything we desired, we were neither hungry not begging for money. My husband lost his job early last year which caused a little hardship.

“I had to carry all the responsibilities for about 6 months which wasn’t a problem for me. My boss found out and promised to get my husband a well paying job at his friend’s company if we have sex. It was after we had sex I realized that the bastard didn’t have anything to offer. I feel so ashamed and I am dying inside because I have betrayed my husband.” She said.

Speaking also, a 30-year-old lady, Mercy, revealed that she cheats because she has a high sex drive and her husband no longer satisfies her in bed.

According to her, “I have a high sex drive which my husband knew about since we started dating. During our relationship, we have sex at least 15 times a week. When he relocated to Abuja, I usually visit him from Lagos every weekend and all we do is wake up, eat, sleep and have plenty of sex till I go back. We got married in 2019, and our sex life was still good. In 2020, my husband changed, he started complaining about my sex drive and how tired he feels all the time.

“After depriving me of sex for a week, he ordered sex toys for me online, which I found useless because I’m not a fan of it. Long story short, I have anonymously paid a relationship blog to help find a guy who will satisfy my sexual needs. My sex life has been top notch for the past two months.”