Thelma Osatohanmwen
In a recent episode of the “Surviving Lagos” podcast, hosted by media personality Susan Pwajok, popular pastor Emmanuel Iren has alleged that women who have sex regularly are not easily satisfied.
Speaking on the the potential drawbacks of engaging in sex before marriage, Pastor Iren emphasized that premarital sex can hinder the ability to identify red flags in a relationship.
According to him, “First and foremost, you will not spot errors and red flags as readily as you should if sex is involved, because you’re just going to keep patching things up”.
He further stated that there is statistical evidence suggesting that the more sexual partners a woman has had, the less likely she is to be satisfied with one man. “And do you realize that it is also statistically proven that the more men a woman has been with, the less likely she is to be satisfied with one man? I’m telling you!”
Also, he used an analogy to describe the impact of multiple sexual relationships on a person’s ability to commit. He compared commitment to a piece of sticky tape that loses its adhesive quality the more it is used.
“Each time you remove the tape, the adhesive will have wear and tear until the attachment is no longer possible,” he said.
Pastor Iren highlighted that each sexual encounter triggers the release of oxytocin, a chemical that promotes bonding, which he claims can diminish a person’s ability to commit to one partner over time.